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The author aged 4 at his first Christmas in Elm Walk, Penkridge

The author celebrating Christmas dinner aged 20 (back left) with brother Paul and front row (left to right), father Geoff, Mother Connie, Aunt Em and Uncle Alfie

 

A Child's Christmas in Penkridge........and a Person's Holiday Season
in San Francisco

Borrowing from Dylan Thomas and his version of what made a perfect Christmas as a child, I thought I would share with Penkridge readers what my idyllic Christmases were like growing up in the village and how they have changed over 35 years and 6,000 miles away in San Francisco, where I have been living the last two decades.

The first difference of course is the weather - no San Francisco school child has to walk 2.6 miles every day (according to Google Maps) in freezing sleet, snow or rain to Wolgarston from the Grange Estate.  Quicker though the journey was to St. Michael's, it was made considerably worse by having to wear shorts and thereby suffering from painful, wind-chapped legs all winter, made only slightly better with the liberal application of Zinc and Castor Oil to the inner thighs.  To this day, I still remember the smell of the ointment - unfortunately.

Looking back to the late '60's and '70's, it seems to me all those years ago and miles away from my home in California today, that every Christmas Day was snowy, all the Robins were red-breasted, we were always awake before dawn opening presents, the Salvation Army band would come round to the corner on every Christmas morning and stay there for hours, we would always get full English breakfast with kidneys and black pudding and Daddies sauce, I would always get my favourite presents, either the model car or the Airfix Spitfire, which was assembled before Morecambe and Wise came on the telly at night, the Queen's speech was broadcast during dinner so I didn't have to watch it, the Dairy Box was always full of my preferred choices of toffee and coffee cream, The Great Escape and Top of the Pops Christmas show were consistently fantastic, and my favourite Uncle Alfie was always offering me small nips of his brandy, sometimes more than small nips.

Then later in the '70's and early '80's, all the above was still happening, but we had the added Christmas bonanza of the pub!   It seems The Railway, The Star, Cross Keys or The Jockey were always packed with my friends on Christmas Eve as was the carol service at midnight at St. Michaels and then we would all be back again for Christmas Day lunch having the best of times reminiscing about the year gone by and what lay ahead for New Year: was it down the Peace Memorial Hall, Top of the World in Stafford, The Hatherton or someone's house after their parents had gone out? 

In truth of course, not all of those things happened every Christmas - it just seems like they did.   They represent my personal highlights of growing up and celebrating Christmas in Penkridge from 4 to 24 years old - and I miss those days. 

Don't get me wrong, I truly enjoy my Christmases in San Francisco with my partner Susan and her family, our dog Pepper and our friends.   I still watch the Great Escape on DVD over the Holiday Season (as Christmas is unfortunately called these days in America).   I still go down the pub (or the sports bar as they are called over here).   I still have Full English Breakfast on Christmas morning,(English Breakfast Tea that is, not kidneys, black pudding and Daddies sauce).   I still go out Christmas Day at lunch time, (but instead of going down the pub I head to the beach with my dog).  The presents are still nice, but these days are mostly practical items such as slippers, underwear, jumpers etc. not like the Chopper Bike that nearly killed me one Christmas Morning tearing around on it all over the estate and the Swamp.  

But I think the real reason Christmas in California is different than Christmas in Penkridge is that for me, my life in San Francisco is missing the most important part of every Christmas: Family.

Without my family, and especially my parents, none of those cherished memories I have of growing up and celebrating Christmas in Penkridge would have been possible.   Now, facing the first Christmas without either of them around after they both passed away recently, I look back with fondness, nostalgia and joy at those years I had in Penkridge at this time of year with them and realise no Christmas will ever be the same again, either in San Francisco or back in England.

I hope this year, you and your family's celebrations are just as special as mine were all those years ago in Penkridge.   I would invite you to think about what it is that makes this a special time of year and think about all the things that bring you joy and then engage in them with the same enthusiasm as you managed as a child and see what happiness they bring you and your loved ones.

I'll be raising a glass to my parents this year and I'll look back over the years and across the miles, to all the happiness of every single one of my Christmases growing up in the village.  

If, sometime in the future, you too are looking back and savouring the moments of this time of year in Penkridge as much I do, then you will indeed be having a VERY Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year in that special place!

Merry Christmas Penkridge!
                                               Andy Narraway
                                                  
28 November 2011

 

 

 

Saturday, 30 April 2011

Hello Penkridge:

My second "letter from America" - Or should this edition be Letters from New Zealand and Japan?  Not because I'm writing from those places, but because we San Franciscans share some of the same dangers and risks as the people who recently suffered through the earthquakes and tsunami over there and naturally my thoughts have been with those who have suffered so much.   It's only a matter of time before we in San Francisco suffer the same fate, as we all live on the Pacific Ring of Fire, (no nothing to do with the Johnny Cash song or a controversial TV ad for hemorrhoidal treatment a decade ago over here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3g5cdpe1it8) but rather a rough circle-shape of tectonic plates that surrounds the Pacific and causes so much devastation to those of us who choose to live on it.

 The author Simon Winchester described San Francisco as a staggeringly beautiful place perched precipitously on a crack at the edge of the world.   But it's precisely this danger that created such a remarkable place to live with its huge bay, majestic hills, geological scenery and amazing mountains only a couple of hours away in the Sierra Nevada's.   Of course, this natural beauty has it's drawbacks.   Like the Big One that's anticipated at a 65% chance within the next 20 years.   The city was completely destroyed in 1906 by an earthquake and the resulting fire and in the 25 years I've lived here, we feel temblors every few months ranging from 3.0 to 4.5.   The most that happens is you feel a slight sudden shift in the house and you hear a crack when the wood in the structure bends and flex with the strain of the earth moving underneath.    You know what it is immediately, but you don't know if its going to continue, so your heart and pulse races regardless of whether its 3.0 (negligible) or a 7.1 (destructive). 

I was here in 1989 when we had a 7.1 quake and let me tell you, they are no fun.   I was driving on the freeway when it struck at 5.04pm and the car I was in started rolling from side to side.  I thought I had a flat tyre but when I saw a wall collapsing in front of me and the lights and signposts swinging crazily I knew it wasn't a flat tyre but an earthquake - which kept going, and going and going....or so it seemed at the time, but in fact only lasted 15 seconds.   However, in those few seconds, 63 people died, 3,757 were injured and 12,000 people were made homeless.   That day remains with me every time I drive across the Golden Gate or the Bay bridges as a span on the Bay bridge collapsed that day and it doesn't give you much confidence in these 70 year old structures that when the Big One does hit, then the bridges aren't going to survive and I would not  want to be caught on them when it happens. 

 Many people have become blasé about quakes in San Francisco as its been so long since we had a major one, but not this intrepid Black Country lad, used to dealing with all sort of emergencies and crises growing up in Penkridge, like how to deal with the rising waters of the Penk, watching for suspicious activity at the ATC center at the end of Grange road, being observant of leaves on the tracks of the London to Edinburgh railway and how to get pork scratchings at midnight on Christmas Eve, (it helps when the landlord of The Railway Inn is a family friend).... and so armed with the knowledge and experiences of these youthful disasters, I decided to prepare for when the next big earthquake does strike.    I went online and bought a 72 hour survival kit.   It arrived a couple of weeks ago and consists of dehydrated food for 4 people, an emergency blanket and tarp for cover, first aid kit, swiss army knife, an axe and 4 gallons of water in pouches -  and a wind up radio to listen to the American equivalent of Wogan while the surrounding city burns to the ground post quake.

As I was examining this so-called survival kit, it struck me that I already have most of this stuff.... its called camping gear..... which has been stuck in the back of my garage for the last few years gathering dust, mainly due to flashbacks of holidays in my teen years of wet, soggy fortnights spent at Taylbont tent site near Barmouth, inWales.

I finally brought up the courage to exhume the camping stuff recently and have decided that this summer is the time to face the demons and put behind me the dangers of camping I faced at Talybont of drunken Brummies tripping over tent pegs in the dead of night, rain falling so hard a flash flood happened under my tent while I was sleeping, lizards inadvertently fried by falling into cooking pans etc.... and am now ready to face the more daunting dangers of camping in the mountains of California, such as mountain lions, 600 pound black bears raiding for food, coyotes, water moccasins and rattlesnakes.....but after surviving The Railway on Christmas Eve and summers in Talybont, I can survive anything - I hope.

Andy Narraway   (30 April 2011)

 

 
 

Camping in California - by Andrew Narraway - Copyright 2011 ©

 
 

 

 

 

Wednesday, 26 January 2011

Hello Penkridge:

I am an ex Penkridge lad, educated at Marshbrook infants, then St. Michael's and finally onto Wolgarston High School when I left (or graduated as I believe is the nomenclature these days) in 1980 with 10 "O" and 2 "A" levels and headed like Dick Whittington hoping for fame and fortune (well, a decent paying job at least) to London Town at the ripe old age of 17.

After working in Lloyds of London for 2 years, where my salary was £2,900 per annum, (so I obviously didn't find the decent wage I was looking for!), I decided I would have a better standard of living by going to college!   Yes, I really WAS that poor in London.   I graduated 3 years later from what was then Plymouth Poly with an honours degree in Law and Economics.

Having gained the requisite "Hons" after my name, I then decided I wanted to travel around the world for two years before returning to the UK to start a career.   This was of course before the idea of a gap year had ever been thought about and my friends and family looked horrified when informed of my plans.    So I left to wander the world as many Penkridge youngsters have done in the past.   My travels took me first to the States where for six months I worked my way across the country painting houses, working on farms, working as a school janitor, working in a monastery, until  I ended up in San Francisco in California on the West Coast where I have lived and worked now for 25 years.   

I keep in touch with Penkridge as my dad still lives there and Bevan suggested I perhaps sent the occasional “Letter from San Francisco”, following in the footsteps of Alistair Cooke (for those who remember him).  It will only be short notes and somewhat irregular as I don’t make my living from writing, and I will try and cover some of the things about America you may be interested in from a Penkridge Lad's perspective - my views about this city, state and country – let Bevan know if you find them interesting – or register on the “Have your Say” Forum on the website and tell me to go jump in the Pacific if that takes your fancy, or you can suggest things you may want to hear about or know about life in California.

So what of the current news from San Fran (the locals NEVER call it Frisco!) ?   Well, I thought of the old Country today.  We have been having a bit of a mini heat wave here in northern California.  It was 72 degrees Fahrenheit and sunny at 5pm, so after work I took my dog, a 2 year old rescue dog called Pepper, who is a rambunctious  Australian Kelpie (no, I'd never heard of the breed either!) out to the local beach. 

He comes with me to work in my office (we can do that in California, and wear flip flops to work as well) and so both of us having been shut indoors all day decided to cut out early and go for a walk at my favourite beach.   Its called Baker Beach, only 15 minutes from downtown.   As I sat down and had a cold bottle of Bass Ale,  I watched the sun set over the Pacific, with the Golden Gate Bridge on my right looking an even more spectacular red in the sun's waning rays and all of a sudden I found myself thinking “why oh why doesn’t Banks’s make a bottle of beer to export to America?”.

Andy Narraway   (26 January 2011)

 

Golden Gate Bridge, San Franciso, California - by Andy Narraway ©